Question by Julie: Would you let your hubby get wasted and stay wasted after bad health news my parents think i am being..?
Monday my hubby found out he had pancreatic cancer and its taken its toll on him because he is only 26 years old. Well he has been majorly depressed since then and i understand its only been two days and such and i am not trying to be heartless or anything. But he has also stayed wasted i mean just completely plastered when he is awake and just staying in the bedroom. I understand he is grieving and such but isn’t this just a bit much. I tried cutting him off but then he went for the keys and so i just gave in and went and got him more alcohol. But i think i am going to put a stop to it today i hid the keys and such. My parents and his told me i am being insensitive and that i need to let him grieve. And that i am being unreasonable and heartless. I don’t think i am i just don’t want a plastered hubby all the time expesly since i am pregnant with our first and such. Are they right? Advice?
Answer by kpopp
DId you understand that your husband’s cancer is the most treatment-resistant? I would have hoped that yo would have more compassion for your husband’s cancer. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you like to have your life cut short by this sort of ailment?
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