What do i say to a loved one before they die?

Question by Bryan: What do i say to a loved one before they die?
Dad is dying of pancreatic cancer

Best answer:

Answer by John K
“I love you”

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4 Comments
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    Mook May 10, 2013 at 1:02 pm

    You could think of all the things that might have upset him about your relationship in the past and try and put them straight between you. However, this might get you into arguments. But you could apologize for something you did that was wrong while you still have the chance etc.

    You could go over all the things in your childhood that you loved and all the things they taught you and did for you so that they can think of themselves as a good parent, and that will give them some pride and a sense that they did some good in the world.

    You can tell them all the things you have admired about them in the past (without saying how you will remember them, because that is a difficult topic). Again, make them feel good about themselves.

    And most importantly, you can tell them you love them and that you really matter to them and that they have shaped your world for the better.

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    Abrar May 10, 2013 at 1:52 pm

    so sad…….
    i love you!!

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    Sweetlover 89 May 10, 2013 at 2:31 pm

    Say how you feel about them, how their life means a lot to you and what they meant to you. I feel like losing a parent is a very sad point in time. I truly wish you and your family the best and especially your dad.

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    Pamela Marquardt May 10, 2013 at 3:19 pm

    Let him know how much you love him and when the time comes, let him know that it is ok to go.

    http://www.pancan.org

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